I met friends for lunch in downtown Sacramento on Friday before making our way to see the documentary movie Buck which opened July 1st. I have been looking forward to this because I have learned much from another true horseman, Tom Simmons, over the last 18 years. Horse people need to be taught about the horse and made aware of how they can be for us if we just learn how to "get with them."
True horsemen are a very rare breed although most horse folk like to think of themselves as the "real deal". One can spend a whole lifetime working with horses and not really understand them like the "true horseman". A true horseman has a real sensitivity regarding how the horse thinks about things. Most horse folk (myself included) can not relate well to how a prey animal thinks about things. We think they are like us in what we need. We pride ourselves in being good to horses...or are we? We think we are, but the horse needs us to be good with them in their needs. In the movie, Buck said that he often spends more time helping horses with people problems, than helping people with horse problems.
There was a powerful illustration of how wrong people can get with horses. A woman brought a young stud colt to one of Buck's clinics as a last resort for this dangerous stallion. At birth, the colt had lain without oxygen a long time before the woman intervened and breathed life into him. She took him into her home and nursed him, spoiling him, and not teaching him anything until she had the most dangerous animal I have ever seen on her hands. One of Buck's assistants suffered a vicious attack by the horse; showing the woman, once and for all, that the horse had to be destroyed. Buck was obviously disturbed that people had failed this horse in their idea of being good to the horse. Buck told the woman (who had 18 more stallions on her place) that the colt told him a lot about her and the problems she has in her life. She became emotional and acknowledged this, finally seeing the wrong she had done to the horse.
Buck is the go-between horse and human. He has wisdom gained through personal experience and great mentors such as Tom Dorrance and Ray Hunt. Buck chooses his life on the road 9 months of the year doing clinics. Although a good family man, the life can be lonely; but, he continues to help the horse and teaches the human how good it can be through understanding, empathy, trust and respect. Yes, he is a true horseman and we should seek what he knows for our own horse's sake. For our own too...it all transfers into every aspect of our own lives.
Thank you Cindy Meehl for making this film and making us aware of a real Horse Whisperer. And yes, true horsemen and women come to the same knowledge about horses from different paths.
I was born with the passion for horses. It was not until I had the good fortune to meet a true horseman did I begin to learn how to understand them and make my horse experience a full one. I hope to pass on some truths I have learned in the ongoing process of living and working with horses.
Sunday, July 3, 2011
Saturday, June 18, 2011
Wishee...an old friend with a new, important job
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| Tom Simmons delivering Wishee to Kim in Fresno, CA |
A friend of mine bought a yearling, sight unseen, and shipped him directly to Tom Simmons farm in North Carolina to live and be trained before being shipped to my friend's home in California, as a four year old.
Now...she was not unhappy with Wishee...No, he was good as gold. She just wanted a horse with more "get up and go" for riding and driving.
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| Beginning driving in North Carolina |
http://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/local/Horses_for_Heroes_Bay_Area-123666304.html
The director of the program said that although Wishee has only been in the program for a few months; he, and the other 2 horses shown were the most trustworthy.
Like my trainer Tom says: "A good horse is never an accident."
I would like to add that a good horse (well trained) will always have a home and a job.
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| "This veteran served in Iraq and has two rods in his back. Wishe takes good care of him." |
Friday, May 27, 2011
Doing the best we can with what we have.
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| The ever serious Winfield |
Ever since it was suggested to me that I need a new horse, I have been thinking why we have the horses we do and what is our motivation to use and keep them when they are not the best choice for what we do.
A few months ago I decided to close the circle on a driving career of one of our Morgan horses by entering him in an upcoming pleasure show where he began his driving career 16 years ago. LH Winfield Scott made his debut at the driving classes at the Motherlode circuit show held at the Nevada County fairgrounds where the famous annual Draft Horse Classic is held. Due to poor scheduling that year, the driving classes didn't start until 10 p.m. and so it was "stand around and wait" until the wee hours in the morning. For a young Morgan gelding, it was a testament to his good start that he patiently awaited his classes, under full lights and loud metal grandstands to show. From that show, Winfield went on to provide good driving experience to inexperienced owners...(that would be us) while we embarked on our driving journey that took us to undreamed of heights.
Winfield, although obedient and steadfast, never achieved the success that our other Morgan climbed to in sport, but that does not mean he didn't deliver what was asked. He was bred for performance but didn't quite have the conformation or mind set to make him a more than willing outstanding athlete. Just how many horses have what it takes to reach the top of sport? Not many I think. I think one can breed for the necessary traits, but life or circumstances can derail the best candidates and they may never get the chance. It is about being at the right place, at the right time, with the right horse, with the right guidance.
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| The Marlboro Man on his working horse Win |
I realize he is not the best choice for the Gig type carriage horse I will try and present, but I am going to do the best I can with what I have.
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| LH Winfield Scott being a road horse at a Traditional Day of Driving |
We have been fortunate to have had Winfield in our lives and hope to have him for many more years before he sleeps the big sleep.
Here is to the people who keep on with their trusty, yet not totally perfect horses. And here is to the longevity of the nicely bred Morgan horse who continues to give safe service albeit not totally willing.
| working for the upcoming last show |
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Sick and tired of basics
I read this exchange from Jessica Jahiel's Horse Sense newsletter and it gave me opportunity to pass on to my readers some advice that I have discovered from another source. No matter where it comes from...it is good advice. Here is my new favorite quote:
Question to Jessica:
From: Veronica
Subject: Sick and tired of basics
Dear Jessica, I hope you can help me think of
some way to get my instructor to back off me a
little. She is a total bug on basics. Basics,
basics, basics! That's all I hear about, every
single lesson, all of the time. She is a good
rider and her horses go great and she's a good
teacher when she isn't going "Basics basics
basics yadda yadda yadda" all the time. I
understand how it is for her because she teaches
a lot of beginner riders (adult beginners) but
I'm seventeen and I have been riding horses for
more than ten years. I'm no beginner, and I
would like to know some way to get her to snap
out of her "teaching beginners the basics"
routine when she works with me. I stay with her
because I have had good results for the last two
years and my horse and I have both improved a
lot, but this "basics" stuff is getting so old
with me! I'm probably her most advanced rider
now because so many of her other students are
people who are like 50 and older. I like them
mostly, I don't have anything against them and
they are mostly nice people but we're so
different. They're riding for fun and a hobby or
to get some exercise, some have been riding like
forever and they're still not all that good, so
basically they aren't serious riders. I can
totally see why they need basics all the time,
but I want to get places with my riding I work
hard and I am ready to move on. How can I get my
instructor to understand that I'm not that
little fifteen-year-old kid anymore and I'm ready to do some real riding?
Veronica
Hi Veronica! Come on, you didn't really expect me
to contradict your instructor on this subject,
did you? If you came here to ride with me you
could certainly expect to hear "Basics basics
basics yadda yadda yadda" all the time, for
years... in fact, for as long as you rode with
me. One of my students has been with me for at
least 25 years now, and I'm sure that if you
asked her when I stopped talking about basics she
would just laugh, because I haven't stopped yet.
I will stop talking about basics when I'm dead. Probably.
You shouldn't feel picked on or singled out, and
you shouldn't feel bad about your instructor's
VERY CORRECT emphasis on basics for both horse
and rider. I'll say it again: NEVER feel bad
about spending time on the basics. Lots of time.
ALL the time. At EVERY lesson and during - in
fact, all the way through - every ride between
lessons. There is no such thing as too much
emphasis on basics or too much time spent on
basics. On the contrary, wherever I go, the more
horses and riders I see and work with, the more I
appreciate the ones that have a good solid
foundation... and there aren't all that many!
Those are the lucky ones because they can make
progress right now; they don't have to start over
again, learning things they had never learned or
- sadder - having to re-learn things that they
thought they knew and could do, but actually
didn't know and couldn't do at all.
The more time you spend on the basics - not just
doing them, but doing them WELL and understanding
how and why to do them well - the better. Here's
a thought for you to ponder: At my clinics, I
have never yet seen a single problem that didn't
go back to a flaw in the horse's or the rider's basics.
EVERYTHING is basics.
Think of the most basic concepts in classical
dressage: CALM, FORWARD, STRAIGHT. If you can
keep your horse calm, ride him forward, and make
him straight, you can do anything. ANYTHING. And
when something - anything - goes wrong, it's
always because one or more of those qualities is
missing. Riding doesn't get any more basic than that.
Why not ask your instructor to suggest some
interesting and challenging books for you to
read? You've had years of riding experience, I'm
sure you could assimilate some riding theory as
well, and it's the combination of the two -
practical, physical time in the saddle AND time
spent in thoughtful reading and discussion - that
will help you make the most and best progress.
This may also be the single best (non-riding) way
to show your instructor just how serious you are.
Most instructors are delighted to assign and then
discuss books and articles; in fact, we're
typically over the moon when we discover that
we've got a student who wants to ride AND read
about riding AND discuss her readings.
My main advice to you, though, is that you please
not confuse "beginner" with "basics." Basics are
for beginners, yes, but they're also for
intermediate riders, and for advanced riders, and
for expert instructors and trainers and
clinicians... and for highly-successful
international competitors as well. Basics are
what help riders get to the top; a lack of basics
is what holds riders back. It doesn't sound to me
as if your instructor is holding you back - after
all, didn't you just tell me that after two
years, you and your horse have both improved a
lot? It sounds to me as though you're working
with a good instructor and are making excellent
progress. Keep up the good work, learn to regard
Oh, and one more thing. Do me a favour, please,
and go a little easier on those of us who are
over 50, okay? We know that we aren't as flexible
as you are, and most of us are dealing with some
physical issues, but we really do work hard at
our lessons, our riding is important to us, and
we care about making progress even if we make
progress much more slowly than you do. Please
don't write us off entirely. I know it's hard to
believe now, but in a mere 33 years, if you're
still riding then (and I hope that you will be),
YOU will be one of US! When that day comes, you
might feel a little bit sad if there's a
flexible, coordinated, talented
seventeen-year-old rider at your barn who holds
you in contempt just because you're 50 and still
haven't managed to achieve perfection as a rider.
Here's a tip from someone who's been there, done
that, and is still and forever doing that: I
don't think that anyone ever actually achieves
that much-desired state of perfection as a rider
- I know I never will! But I'm never going to
stop trying... and even at my age, the keys to
success and progress are, yes, you guessed it: Basics.
Jessica
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— Marcel Proust
Question to Jessica:
From: Veronica
Subject: Sick and tired of basics
Dear Jessica, I hope you can help me think of
some way to get my instructor to back off me a
little. She is a total bug on basics. Basics,
basics, basics! That's all I hear about, every
single lesson, all of the time. She is a good
rider and her horses go great and she's a good
teacher when she isn't going "Basics basics
basics yadda yadda yadda" all the time. I
understand how it is for her because she teaches
a lot of beginner riders (adult beginners) but
I'm seventeen and I have been riding horses for
more than ten years. I'm no beginner, and I
would like to know some way to get her to snap
out of her "teaching beginners the basics"
routine when she works with me. I stay with her
because I have had good results for the last two
years and my horse and I have both improved a
lot, but this "basics" stuff is getting so old
with me! I'm probably her most advanced rider
now because so many of her other students are
people who are like 50 and older. I like them
mostly, I don't have anything against them and
they are mostly nice people but we're so
different. They're riding for fun and a hobby or
to get some exercise, some have been riding like
forever and they're still not all that good, so
basically they aren't serious riders. I can
totally see why they need basics all the time,
but I want to get places with my riding I work
hard and I am ready to move on. How can I get my
instructor to understand that I'm not that
little fifteen-year-old kid anymore and I'm ready to do some real riding?
Veronica
Hi Veronica! Come on, you didn't really expect me
to contradict your instructor on this subject,
did you? If you came here to ride with me you
could certainly expect to hear "Basics basics
basics yadda yadda yadda" all the time, for
years... in fact, for as long as you rode with
me. One of my students has been with me for at
least 25 years now, and I'm sure that if you
asked her when I stopped talking about basics she
would just laugh, because I haven't stopped yet.
I will stop talking about basics when I'm dead. Probably.
You shouldn't feel picked on or singled out, and
you shouldn't feel bad about your instructor's
VERY CORRECT emphasis on basics for both horse
and rider. I'll say it again: NEVER feel bad
about spending time on the basics. Lots of time.
ALL the time. At EVERY lesson and during - in
fact, all the way through - every ride between
lessons. There is no such thing as too much
emphasis on basics or too much time spent on
basics. On the contrary, wherever I go, the more
horses and riders I see and work with, the more I
appreciate the ones that have a good solid
foundation... and there aren't all that many!
Those are the lucky ones because they can make
progress right now; they don't have to start over
again, learning things they had never learned or
- sadder - having to re-learn things that they
thought they knew and could do, but actually
didn't know and couldn't do at all.
The more time you spend on the basics - not just
doing them, but doing them WELL and understanding
how and why to do them well - the better. Here's
a thought for you to ponder: At my clinics, I
have never yet seen a single problem that didn't
go back to a flaw in the horse's or the rider's basics.
EVERYTHING is basics.
Think of the most basic concepts in classical
dressage: CALM, FORWARD, STRAIGHT. If you can
keep your horse calm, ride him forward, and make
him straight, you can do anything. ANYTHING. And
when something - anything - goes wrong, it's
always because one or more of those qualities is
missing. Riding doesn't get any more basic than that.
Why not ask your instructor to suggest some
interesting and challenging books for you to
read? You've had years of riding experience, I'm
sure you could assimilate some riding theory as
well, and it's the combination of the two -
practical, physical time in the saddle AND time
spent in thoughtful reading and discussion - that
will help you make the most and best progress.
This may also be the single best (non-riding) way
to show your instructor just how serious you are.
Most instructors are delighted to assign and then
discuss books and articles; in fact, we're
typically over the moon when we discover that
we've got a student who wants to ride AND read
about riding AND discuss her readings.
My main advice to you, though, is that you please
not confuse "beginner" with "basics." Basics are
for beginners, yes, but they're also for
intermediate riders, and for advanced riders, and
for expert instructors and trainers and
clinicians... and for highly-successful
international competitors as well. Basics are
what help riders get to the top; a lack of basics
is what holds riders back. It doesn't sound to me
as if your instructor is holding you back - after
all, didn't you just tell me that after two
years, you and your horse have both improved a
lot? It sounds to me as though you're working
with a good instructor and are making excellent
progress. Keep up the good work, learn to regard
Oh, and one more thing. Do me a favour, please,
and go a little easier on those of us who are
over 50, okay? We know that we aren't as flexible
as you are, and most of us are dealing with some
physical issues, but we really do work hard at
our lessons, our riding is important to us, and
we care about making progress even if we make
progress much more slowly than you do. Please
don't write us off entirely. I know it's hard to
believe now, but in a mere 33 years, if you're
still riding then (and I hope that you will be),
YOU will be one of US! When that day comes, you
might feel a little bit sad if there's a
flexible, coordinated, talented
seventeen-year-old rider at your barn who holds
you in contempt just because you're 50 and still
haven't managed to achieve perfection as a rider.
Here's a tip from someone who's been there, done
that, and is still and forever doing that: I
don't think that anyone ever actually achieves
that much-desired state of perfection as a rider
- I know I never will! But I'm never going to
stop trying... and even at my age, the keys to
success and progress are, yes, you guessed it: Basics.
Jessica
HORSE-SENSE is a subscriber-supported newsletter. If you would like to help
support HORSE-SENSE, please visit the website for information. Thank you!
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www.horse-sense.org
Copyright ? 1995-2011. Jessica Jahiel, Holistic Horsemanship?
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sick and tired of basics
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
the message
How do you like to hear the message about what is true with horses? Do you like to hear from the famous? The one who wins the most? The cutest? The one with the foreign accent? The one who charges the most? The one who charges the least? The one who compliments and strokes your ego?...OK, you get the picture.
I have come to the conclusion that the great horse men and women all arrive at horse truths from different roads, but are basically the same truths. There is really nothing new in horse training only new human language. Equipment may be new with a different little twist, but someone, somewhere in time, figured out a similar thing that makes it all basically the same. Methods were used that suited the time and place, but only the real horsemen and women crossed into the rare zone where understanding is real between the two species. All horse people want to be knowledgeable and expert about the animals they care for, compete, and use for work; but, there comes a time when they realize they have only scratched the surface when they see what true horsemen and women can do with the horse.
The movie"The Horse Whisperer" was based on one of the modern true horsemen, Buck Brannaman. He also consulted with the movie team. Whatever you may think of the movie and it's storyline, it showed a glimpse of what can be accomplished with communication between the two species.
Cindy Meehl's 2011 Sundance Film Festival U.S. Documentary film "Buck" is due out next month. It follows Buck through the eyes of the Sundance Institue filmaker who just happened to be a horse person and attend one of Buck's clinics eight years ago. It took her two years, 300 hours of film, and working with talented people to cut to documentary length of 84 minutes.
Here is the link to the story of how the movie came about and a video of the trailer to see a bit of Buck and his horse logic. http://www.indiewire.com/article/meet_the_2011_sundance_filmmakers_buck_director_cindy_meehl/
I see so much similarity in philosophy to my true horseman and friend, Tom Simmons, that it confirms my conclusion that the great horse men and women are rare but come to know the horse as it truly is.
I see so much similarity in philosophy to my true horseman and friend, Tom Simmons, that it confirms my conclusion that the great horse men and women are rare but come to know the horse as it truly is.
Buck says two things in the movie trailer that I have heard before but makes powerful sense.
"A lot of the time, rather than helping people with horse problems, I am helping horses with people problems."
"All your horses are a mirror to your soul; and sometimes, you might not like what you see in the mirror. You can't hold it against him for how his life has been. Maybe there are some things for you to learn about you; and, maybe the horse is going to be the only damn way you're gonna learn it."
Friday, March 25, 2011
The Peace Zone by Tom Simmons
This is one of my favorite articles written by my horse trainer, Tom Simmons. This is what every horse needs before work together can begin... Also note that this article has been slightly re-written and more information can also be found at: http://tomsimmonsstables2008.blogspot.com/2008/06/peace-zone.html The Peace Zone by Tom Simmons | |
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Marianne's lesson from Tom
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| Marianne riding her beloved Criollo Mise |
In her book, Crying with Cockroaches Argentina to New York with two horses, Marianne wrote of her problems with American horse Toto and how Tom Simmons addressed them. She writes:
"Tom was and expert with equines and strongly believed that they should be outside in their natural habitat as much as possible and allowed to be horses. He was well-known in the area, as well as in California, for his direct and intuitive approach with these animals.
"Toto wants to be the leader," he said, "and as long as you allow him to be that, you'll have these problems and outbursts."
He told me that Toto did not get enough leadership from me and that I hadn't yet established my authority over him. I told him how I was more a friend to the horses than a disciplinarian but that I recognized the importance of being in control.
He also reckoned that while we rested at Annette's for the five days, the daily alfalfa and sweet feed combination could have made him particularly hyper.
He took Toto in a ring for a bit of training and to get him to become more submissive without hurting him. Afterwards, Toto was like putty in my hands. I took him on the leading rope and walked with him. When I stopped, he stopped, when I retreated, he did the same. You could see that he was now respecting me as the boss. I had a feeling Toto would always have his dominant personality, and I would not have wanted to break his spirit, but at least it was clearer to him now as to who was in charge.
Tom said that Toto needed to feel safe with me and that he needed a lot of reassurance when something frightened him. I tried to apply all the tips and advice and the improvement was noticeable immediately."
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| Fred Rojo, Marianne, Nancy Rojo, Tom Simmons & Camanchi For more information on TATA Challenge: http://www.tatachallenge.com/ |
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